xách mé

Definition
  1. Verb (colloquial, often pejorative):
    • To speak disrespectfully or insolently to someone; to talk back in a rude manner. It implies a lack of respect, often from a younger or subordinate person towards an elder or authority figure. The tone is confrontational and impudent.
Usage Examples
  • Verb:
    • Đứa trẻ đó không được phép xách mé với người lớn. (That child is not allowed to speak disrespectfully to adults.)
    • Nó dám xách mé với sếp thì chắc chắn sẽ bị khiển trách. (If he dares to talk back insolently to the boss, he will surely be reprimanded.)
Advanced Usage
  • The term "xách mé" is strongly associated with verbal insolence and challenging authority. It is not used for physical altercations but specifically for impertinent speech.
Variants and Related Words
  • Cãi lại (v): to talk back, to argue back. This is a more neutral term than "xách mé," which carries a stronger connotation of deliberate disrespect.
    • Con không nên cãi lại mẹ. (You shouldn't talk back to your mother.)
Synonyms
  • To be insolent: showing a rude and arrogant lack of respect.
  • To be impertinent: not showing proper respect; rude.
  • To talk back: to reply to a command, criticism, or scolding in a rude or argumentative way.
Related Idioms
  • Hỗn xược: This is a common adjective/noun meaning "insolent" or "impudent," often describing the same behavior as "xách mé."
    • Thái độ hỗn xược của nó không thể chấp nhận được. (His insolent attitude is unacceptable.)